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They are very childish. However i feel i am done with him Lord willing in the name of Jesus Christ am done. It is hard. lights on or my car back. Now I’ve told her I need closure so I can forgive her and move on with my life and have peace. It drove me crazy. I married a narcissist identical to my sister. thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing. he chased.did no contact. I work as an LEO and worked a lot through the years, even on my off days. within 10 minutes the rage was over and he acted like nothing had happened. I gave my life to Christ and it gave me a forgiving heart towards him. The insults came and went, and so did the love bombings. I miss you. (She left her husband for him.). Just re-confirmed the importance of nc. It’s easy to misinterpret any change in your partner’s routine and take it as confirmation of the worst...cheating. Last year he would pretend to be concerned, but he was being nosy, so I had my mother tell him I have a boyfriend to stop his spying, this year hes going nuts, and he told my mother he wants me to drop it. It really is torture. He convinced me I was the one who was causing the problems (no sex, arguments, stress) The breakup took it’s toll – stomach aches – so much pain. never forget that and don’t sell yourself short and give your life away to someone who simply does not have the capacity to love another human being, and will never be what you deserve. However bad it looks, it is actually good. Karma will take care of the rest. No, Amy… You have to. I’ve been combing the internet for something that pretty thoroughly explains how a narcissistic ex tries to come back, complete with full examples. Again, Im telling you that its not worth your time if you still wish to go back w/ a narc- nope. This keeps happening over and over. You roll your eyes and think, pa-leeeeeease, but somewhere, very deep inside, you feel one tiny heart string being pulled. I still have to see my brother sometimes, at family gatherings, but I ignore him completely. They really do see you as a stupid sucker . When I didn’t respond, he tried several more tactics – pity, guilt, nostalgia. Just when No Contact was going so well & i was moving on. Believe the psychiatrist who warned you that she is dangerous. I was ruthless, nasty and just a plain disgusting something even more menacing and vomit-like than a N. I knew I broke that person that day and I feel bad about it but I will never apologize or give them satisfaction of confirming their delusion’s and lies. Please know there is a way out and it does get better but you have to cut all contact and never turn back. I wish I had knowledge about narcisism many years ago.I’m from Catholic family and have been abused by my mother and sisters.My sister flying monkey was locking me in the cellar for hours. I’m trying NC. It is very real and very devastating. Thankfully It didn’t ignite any feelings for him. Then he complains and says I haven’t done anything for his son.. Plus how can I when I never see him? He got off on the fact that he would be viewed as such a generous guy. from everything i read. Me too, we work the same shift so, I told her it would be touch and go scenario between us for about two weeks because I had training and a surgery scheduled. He’s so hot, etc.”. She had to drill into my head that things were NEVER going to be different. It’s to the point where I wonder when the next time will be. He denied over and over again that he ever lied or did anything wrong, ever and was even taking swings at me verbally. I do not believe a word he says but I find him entertaining. . I’ve been dealing with my ex narc for almost 3 years. what i knew and he straight out told me , what are u waiting for? Again nothing to do with me . As much as I wanted to go back to him becasue Idk the love I had for him was like I ever had for no other guy. She also would get upset with me and just act like she didn’t care and would tell me she was going to go out. However, it lends itself to information I use to research his modus operandi. He’s sketchy and I’ve already pinned him as a very manipulative borderline narcissist. I don’t know how to end this peacefully and I’m tired of being hurt and I don’t want to be mean. These ppl will never change. If you do, I will have to file a restraining order.” She will not change. Should I send it back? by dinner?” I ignored him and said not one word while packing the whole two hours! All of his emails are horrible and accusational. I didn’t want that! ... hysterectomy, tells me I have been places out of the country with other men. I’ve gotten to the point where I know he is dping this to punish me for things. Forgive yourself for letting this happen to you (I felt so much resentment towards myself and I know it’s a hard one to admit). Understanding NPD and the associated behavior I empowered myself and gradually stopped feeding the much needed drug that fed abuse, manipulation and controlling behaviors. Just stay away as much and long as you can and dont return their calls if ever any narc calls you cuz it ll make you go all the way back to the same old shit all over again! Narcissist for 11 years. My friend was there and she said I didn’t do anything wrong and she told me she would never be coming back to our house again after the way he was treating me. Hours of jokes about me and how crazy I was. He has so many pictures of me & texts that was between the two of us in his phone and I feel like if he gets mad that might be the first thing he use to hurt me. And now I am experiencing everything described in this article. Then the S@#%show began..After confronting her about her making out with a guy standing next to me at a party GOD forbid I should have been offended and hurt let alone mention how I felt…I was called every name in the book, the push pull love hate, disappearing acts MIA..the verbal abuse, the personal attacks you know the drill…My 9 year old son had past away 6 months before this encounter and I was enmeshed in my grief (As I stil am and probably will be for the rest of my life…after 4 months of this POS in my life I said screw this and walked away not to ever look back..NO CONTACT ever again..I can now laugh at that situation (ot took several month to gain my self worth and self esteem back) I know who I am again and I AM THAT AMAZING person that even they saw in the beginning..I trust myself and my decisions again and continue feel my strengths more than I have ever in my life…I was devastated in the beginning as I saw my entire future with this person..I finally looked at the grief of my dream and not grieving of her and thats what started my healing…I asked my therapist Why can’t I figure this out or understand this WHOLE THING…it was maddening…she stated ” You will never FIGURE her out nor do you want to..if you could you would EXACTLY like her….MOVE on and set yourself FREEEEEE…. He chooses to be alone. This is better than he had hoped, now he’s got you engaging in a full-fledged conversation. I didn’t want to go no contact but it’s the only way to get the spew of evil entangled free nothing else worked even we decided to go seperate ways he always had a way to drop in convo this would never happen if you never..(fill in gaps I’m sure you been there too). Today is day 1 of no contact. This psycho gave me crazy anxiety and depression and made me question my own sanity. If he pulls it and only gets rewarded some of the time, he’s going to keep pulling a lot longer, because he knows it pays off sometimes, so he tells himself he’s just got to be persistent. I thought maybe his charm will work on some other girl and ur can be her problem but I can’t seem to just say goodbye without a motive or excuse. The highs were really high, like nothing I ever experienced but the lows were extremely low and not worth it. It won’t mean a thing and he will have gotten the response he wanted. He’s not too adventurous, so if he is going to cheat on you it will most likely be in the comfort of his own home. I feel that I need to collect evidence to show that he is this monster, or no one will believe me and he will just destroy me. Always using let me give you some money , take care of you. Bc I gave him on block. I should have walked away when I saw this. I realised I was just hoping my life away. go 100 no contact or they will play on your kindness then suck you back. And XXXXXX. She realized that the counselor had been charmed and might have even been having an affair with my brother! I’ve been trying to stay nc with him for 8 months but keep falling off the wagon. Moving into a bigger home, started my own business. 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